Hey Guys!
I don’t think ya’ll understand how much I miss you. I think about ya’ll everyday. My heart hurts because I don’t have the time to communicate due to my schedule being so hectic. I don’t have the time to tell you my story, but just know that it has lead me to a full-time job, going to school full time, and a part time gig. I only have one day off a week, and that is used for rest, school projects, cooking for the week, family, etc... So basically you can go ahead and say that I don’t have any days off. Either way, I am on a quest to change my life and be in a better financial position - - with the help of God of course!
Either way - I wanted to hit ya’ll up with a few things I’ve been wanting to write about, but just didn’t have the time.
- We as women have a very soft spot for men - especially when we’ve connected ourselves to them, albeit physically or emotionally. It’s seems as though we can manage a household, raise children, and maintain friendships without a problem, but we can’t make a logically solid decision when it comes the man in our life. I have observed, as I have been spending more time in the classroom, that when it comes to children, female teachers can lay down the law and stick to it. Teachers have had to learn how to do it because children smell blood and will run all over you if you let them (much like men). Also, teachers care about children and understand that the decisions made are for children’s best. So my suggestion is - start treating the men in your life like teachers treat their students. When your man messes up - let him know and stick to your guns, no matter how upset he is. The decision made is for the health of you, your self-esteem, and the relationship. Correcting him will be well worth it, and when he sees you respecting yourself, he will do the same.
- Why is Erica, of Love & Hip Hop Atlanta, mad at Buckeye and not Scrappy? Was she watching the same show I was watching? Because I clearly remember Scrappy leading Buckeye to believe that him and Erica were not together, and lying to Erica as well. She is too beautiful to be that dumb-eve (dumb and naive put together). Scrappy is still immature and doesn’t know what he wants out of life. I blame that on his mother and Erica, because they have set up the environment for to stay the way that he is. I can go on and on about this, but the moral of the story is - Erica and Scrappy will NOT last. They’ve both got a lot of growing up to do. I pray that they start the process soon because their little girl is growing fast. Scrappy’s mom needs to be checked into a mental hospital, because I know whatever ‘Keisha’ she’s smoking on is probably a bad batch, lol! And as for Buckeye, I pray that she heals from this situation and that she matures herself, as well. The last thing she needs to do is walk back into the same situation.
- Last, but not least, Beyonce has sold you up the river. What river is that? The one that says you can parade around half-dressed, hyper-sexual, and a stuck-up/bougie/ratchet attitude AND end up marrying a rich man and live happily ever after. What has made her sell so easy is that you didn’t even know that’s what she was doing. Her con is so slick because when she’s not on stage she’s very ‘lady-like’ and demure (even though she still wear’s skin tight clothes). But either way, females are mimicking her stage persona to a tee and ending up with high maxed out credit cards and a baby-daddy or two. Ladies! Wake-up! You remember that song she did with Destiny’s Child, Nasty Girl? She, is like, the epitome of that song. Every time I see her on stage it looks like she has on just a shirt and heels. Then Jay-Z is always running around tapping her on her behind. I don’t care if he’s her husband or not, no man - and I repeat - NO MAN is going to that to me in public. That’s disrespectful!!! No wonder why so many young ladies allow men to disrespect them and they think it’s cute - worse off they think it’s normal, or supposed to be that way. No!
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But anyway - - > I’m going to bed because I had 1 major project to turn in the week before last, 2 major projects last week, and I have 3 this week. Needless to say, I think my computer is sick and tired of me looking at it and tapping on the keyboard.
Toodles!!!!
